Problems That Are Included With Dating A Mexican..

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hi there guys encouraged straight back to our Channel what was that? 14 days in the past we produced a video clip where by Joss was talking about the issues that include dating a German with dating him, particularly effectively.. well today we’re gonna… are you fine? I have allergies guy! nowadays we’re going to turn it all around and I’m gonna let you know each of the problems that include dating a Mexican a lot more accurately, this specific one particular here I’m so scared of this movie! I’m about to get offended in a big way however i know you like me and I know you confidentially love all of the reasons for having me you think so? I’m pretty sure each and every them… how dare you guy simply because like I said before: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I adore Mexicans. I really like that one specifically Mexico is certainly a varied land and are therefore individuals.. indeed that’s extremely true we are available in every color, personality, form and shape and then we don’t wish to generalize anything.. we’re not professing which every Mexican does those activities! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you bbpeople meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be ready to fulfill around 100 or 200 people in one day which are portion of the family members which are only area of the household! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the food you will get excess weight and also this is caused by two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and in addition in addition to that it’s tough to say no since Mexican foods are awesome delicious Oh my god I miss it a great deal… you should send out me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! for me as well you should another reason why why you’re going to get excess fat due to the meals are since it’s very cheap compared to Germany real! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m actually also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re 50 % Mexican that’s actually a stereotype which i dislike I loathe when individuals say: you’re about to be delayed simply because you’re Mexican but I’m late all the time! even if I try my best… that’s something I’ve struggled with for a long time the next level which i were required to get used to a good deal: you can receive frightened while driving a vehicle I don’t wish to travel in Mexico as well as as soon as your partner, in such a case she, is traveling Mexico you, seem like: where by would be the regulations? exactly where are the outlines on the floor that let you know where lane you must go along with the openings guy oh my god there is certainly one road I must take every time I go to my home it provides numerous openings.. I learned them my coronary heart I’m like… when you are getting to an intersection there is not really a tip saying who is able to go first Indeed! – in addition there are no signs you generally inform me, normally the one in the largest neighborhood can go initially but for reasons unknown all the Mexicans know where to travel it’s sound judgment bro! it absolutely was the most detrimental in Mexico City there was 1 super occupied street so we were from a small road and the individuals from your tiny road have been just moving similar to this close to all of the other autos in Mexico City I discovered living go through my head for actual like six occasions along with the car owners in the ubers had been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the climate these days? speaking with us in the end is really rather remarkable simply because Mexicans really realize how to push in nuts scenarios! okay the next level is actually a funny 1 but also a regrettable one.. sometimes for squares of toilet papers is perhaps all that you’ll get where do you experience that? very seriously! we were within a marketplace in Mexico City and so i wished for to see the bathroom and that gentleman in front actually provided me with four squares of bathroom papers in this article, do your personal style! and i also was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and that i shared with him: should i have a different one? I didn’t know this is an issue for you personally I mean in Germany you will discover toilet pieces of paper proper next to the lavatory.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah fine that doesn’t occur frequently.. We have to say this took place like twice to me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: # 1 or # 2? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. But no, i don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”! this is merely how they are they’re this way… so don’t get your hopes up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not making him go out! ” which is a tiny bit a lot of folks but… do i need to help remind you of last night? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -fine you happen to be like.. and when I started dating you I used to be like “whoa a new w0rld! ” We have a theory however and that i know this can be about to cause me to audio nuts but notice me out I think that a great deal of this thinking is designed by telenovelas. Don’t arrive for me! do you have viewed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really spectacular and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never going to consider him away from me! ” the reason why this woman staring at you? this mindless $·%·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany people can remain with the girlfriend’s property or young girls can say the boyfriend’s property even though they’re under 18, most likely 16 they could remain at the female friends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and in Mexico they believe the most detrimental of individuals, they are doing some really awful items that they are not able to do elsewhere one of the more persistent emails I become from lovers is girls that happen to be seriously requesting me how would you make Janik know that he could not stay? or how to make my mother and father fully grasp? it’s so hard. -it’s challenging for us way too -sure both sides simply because at the start you couldn’t understand it you were like “I don’t get it” I used to be 22 or 23 yrs old when we started off dating and I was like “I’m so outdated and that i are not able to continue in a similar room as her” and my sibling is even old and her boyfriend couldn’t keep there I’m a grown-up. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!